AN EYE OPENER FOR THE TRULY BLIND

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I closed my eyes and walked around my room. The room I am so familiar with. I bumped into the corner of my bed, then I banged my head on the cupboard and finally, I fell down when my feet got tangled in the phone charging wire.

This was me trying to feel what blind people live like all life long. But trust me, they have better instincts than us, with all five senses intact. They can manoeuvre around a room much better.

I always went with my father to an Andh Aashram. He wanted to donate some money and have a meal with those kids who are denied the beauty of the sight. It was an experience to remember. They ate with such cleanliness, I was ashamed to see that I had spilt some Daal, while their area was spick and span. What amazed me was the songs they…

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Meditate Your Way

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Hello Everyone,

Are you down and frustrated?  Can’t hold on to things in life or have no clue of how life is shaping up?  Feel like screaming your lungs out to the irritating person in front of you just to shut him or her down but have obligation of keeping quite?

Take a deep breath and “Meditate”.  Open the doors of your brain shutting out all the negativity and letting in the positive energy, focus and channelize your energies to something more productive and something more meaningful i.e. your mental peace.  Because it’s your inner peace that could help you see more clearly both sides of an issue, take better decisions and eventually grow as a person be it on emotional front of relationships or success in profession.  Meditation should be a part of our lives which could give us “Me Time” in the otherwise hustling and bustling world around.

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50 Timeless Pieces Of Advice About Love & Relationships

  1. Don’t stay with someone who antagonizes you or belittles you.
  2. If you feel lonely, you’re better off being alone.

  3. Know when to walk away.

  4. You can gauge a person’s love for you by how they treat you when they are upset with you.

  5. Love is a verb, not a noun.

  6. When a lightbulb goes out, you fix the lightbulb. You don’t get a new house.

  7. Don’t settle for someone who has zero regard for your feelings or wants just because you’ve been together a long time.

  8. Just because you love each other does not mean that you’re good together long-term.

  9. No relationship is perfect and there will be conflict. What matters is the desire to solve the problem.

  10. Always fight the problem, not the other person. If you keep this in mind when arguing, you’ll be able to actually resolve the issue than be mad at each other.

  11. Don’t look for a girl you want to treat like a princess, look for a girl you want to treat like a partner.

  12. Don’t disparage your SO behind their back.

  13. Confidence isn’t “I know she likes me”, confidence is “I’ll be okay whether she likes me or not.”

  14. There are a number of people you can be compatible with. No one is perfect. You have to work at love.

  15. You’re not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.

  16. Marry the one who gives you the same feeling you get when you see food coming at a restaurant.

  17. The grass is not greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it.

  18. Stop trying to find the right person and start trying to BE the right person.

  19. The person who cares least in the relationship has the most control.

  20. Don’t fall in love with your waitress, hooker, or therapist.

  21. It’s better to be happy than to be right.

  22. Always be the first to genuinely apologize after a fight.

  23. You can’t expect someone to love you when you can’t love yourself.

  24. Just because you liked the friend-version of someone doesn’t mean you’ll like the relationship-version of them.

  25. Before you move in with your partner, go on a road trip with them.

  26. Don’t be afraid to open up and be vulnerable. Vulnerability can bring you closer together and strengthen the two of you.

  27. When you and your SO are arguing, remember—it’s you and them VS the problem. Not you VS them.

  28. Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

  29. Don’t fall in love with someone’s potential.

  30. It takes two happy individuals to make a happy relationship.

  31. If the world didn’t give each other second chances, we would all be single.

  32. Everyone is searching for the perfect person, but no one is trying to be the perfect person.

  33. If you love the memories more than the relationship, it’s time to move on.

  34. Just because a person is right or perfect for you, you may not be the right one for them.

  35. If it’s broken, fix it. If you’ve lost count of how many times it’s broken, or the cost of repair far outweighs the initial outlay, throw it away and move on.

  36. Out of all the things needed for a successful relationship, love barely makes the top 5. Honesty, loyalty, trust, and communication all have to be there.

  37. Always hold hands when talking about the hard stuff. It helps to keep the negative emotions in check & shows you care.

  38. Be the man or woman you would want your future or current child dating.

  39. Love is about appreciation, not possession.

40.Don’t go to bed angry. Everything will be there and worse in the morning.

  1. Always seduce your lover, even if you are in a committed relationship. Otherwise, another person will.

42.If she threatens to leave, help her pack her bags.

  1. Keep no secrets, tell no lies.
  • Sometimes you gotta wise up and let go. Yes, it hurts. But it’ll hurt more in the future.

  • Relationships aren’t hard. If it is hard, you are probably with the wrong person.

  • Love is not a feeling. Feelings fade, change, respond to situations and events. Love is a choice.

  • If it feels wrong at the beginning, it probably won’t get better.

  • 48.If you’re keeping score you already lost.

    1. Love is an action, not a feeling. It’s learned and developed skill, not an experience. Not that the romantic feeling doesn’t exist or isn’t a wonderful part of the relationship, but it doesn’t make it last.
  • The best sign of a healthy relationship is no sign of it on Facebook.

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    Voice Remains….

    Nameless, Faceless……we will fade
    What remains is my voice
    If you try to remember it

    Time has inflicted beautiful sorrows
    Today we are here, tomorrow nowhere
    May we meet somewhere beyond time

    What night was yesterday is past now
    It was the night of lifetime, not just one time
    Wish I find the hem of that night once again

    Where the afternoon ends in evening, evening into night
    Let the flame of your soul burn brighter
    When memories engulf you, making you sad

    If you try to remember it
    Nameless, Faceless…..we will fade
    What remains is my voice….

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    CAPTURED MEMORIES….

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    Today’s article is going to be my biggest article. You know why? Because it is said, “A picture is worth a thousand words”🙂 Sometimes I wonder that pictures are such magic. I mean just think about a moment in the fabric of time that happened years ago is captured on film and we can just take a look at it and relive that memory again whenever we lay our eyes on it. I can see people who have left me forever; I can see my grandfather and grandmother smiling at me. I can see a little me in my father’s lap who has left for his heavenly abode. I can see my uncle in one of them, he is so happy and full of enthusiasm, though today he is a going through unfortunate and grave circumstances. I can see my mother in one of them with such calm on…

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    Last Wish…….

    Bury me under the stars
    On the banks of a river
    Find an isolated corner
    Plant some Jasmine around me
    I always loved them
    Make sure I can see the setting sun
    Make me wear my pink cotton dress
    It is so comfortable, so beautiful
    Write poetry on my headstone
    “She died every day until the very last.”
    Visit me on your birthday every year
    And maybe on Christmas’s to come
    Bring me some of those cookies you make
    I can eat them all, and some roses from the garden
    Read me a story, I can sleep better that way
    You remember our song?
    Sing that second stanza for me, just like you used to
    Is it too much to ask for?
    Will you do this all?
    I know, I have always been a trouble
    No more, it all sums up here
    I am just changing home
    From this world to your heart
    Now I am just yours, and I am your magic
    No one sees me, no one hears me, but you
    My dying wish, My last wish for you
    Never again will I ask for more
    Lay a kiss on my lips, before I leave

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